Saturday, June 9, 2012

UNIQUE Honor: Bridal Party Responsibilities

So, you've been asked to be in a wedding. First of all, congratulations! This is truly an honor! I'm sure your next question is - what does the couple expect from me? No worries! We've mapped it out for you!

Best Man:
  • Plan and host Bachelor Party
  • Rent or purchase attire
  • Attend Rehearsal and Rehearsal Dinner
  • Helps keep the Groom calm
  • Supervises Groomsmen and Ushers
  • Holds Bride's ring during the Ceremony
  • Escorts the Maid or Matron of Honor
  • Makes the first toast at the Reception
  • Organize the return of any rented wedding attire, including the Groom's
Maid or Matron of Honor:
  • Assists the Bride with her gown selection as well as choosing the attendants' gown and accessories.
  • Purchase gown and accessories that she will be wearing
  • Helps the Bride with wedding-related projects, such as addressing invitations, assembling wedding favors, etc.
  • Plan and host the Bridal Shower
  • Plan and host the Bachelorette Party
  • Record gifts received at Bridal Shower as well as collecting all ribbons and bows for making Rehearsal bouquet
  • Attend Rehearsal and Rehearsal Dinner
  • Arrive early on wedding day and assist the Bride with dressing
  • Helps keep the Bride calm
  • Organize Bridesmaids and their gowns
  • Straighten the Bride's veil and train before and throughout the Ceremony
  • Hold the Groom's ring during Ceremony
  • Signs the marriage license as an official witness
  • Makes a toast at the Reception
  • Fixes the Bride's gown during the Ceremony
  • Holds the Bride's bouquet during the Ceremony
Bridesmaids:
  • Purchase gown and accessories
  • Assist Maid or Matron of Honor in planning and hosting Bridal Shower
  • Help with wedding-related projects, such as assembling wedding favors, running errands for the Bride, etc.
  • Attend Rehearsal and Rehearsal Dinner
Carrie Wildes Photography
Groomsmen and Ushers:
  • Purchase or rent wedding attire
  • Assist in planning Bachelor Party
  • Attend Rehearsal and Rehearsal Dinner
  • Seat guests and distribute wedding programs
  • Escort Bridesmaids
  • Decorate the Newlyweds' vehicle
Parents of the Groom:
  • Assist in compiling guest list
  • Father - Purchase or rent wedding attire, Mother - Purchase attire that is complementary to the wedding color scheme
  • Host the Rehearsal Dinner
  • Make a toast at the Rehearsal Dinner
  • Mother - Dances with the Groom
  • Attend Rehearsal
Parents of the Bride:
  • Assist the Bride with wedding gown and wedding party attire selections
  • Help prepare the guest list
  • Father - Purchase or rent wedding attire, Mother - Purchase attire that is complementary to the wedding color scheme
  • Assist in the details of the wedding
  • Host the Wedding
  • (Father or both parents) Escort the Bride down the aisle
  • Father - Dances with the Bride
  • Attend Rehearsal and Rehearsal Dinner
Jason Mize Photography
Flower Girl:
  • Parents purchase her dress and accessories
  • Attends Rehearsal and, depending on her age, Rehearsal Dinner
  • Drops petals down the aisle preceding the Bride
Ring Bearer:
  • Parents purchase or rent attire
  • Attends Rehearsal and, depending on his age, Rehearsal Dinner
  • Carries rings on a pillow (may or may not be real)